What Happens To YOU, Has No Impact On Your Personal VALUE…

It feels so draining, exhausting, frustrating… A buzz-kill like no other when you’ve put so much work into something or someone, only to have it come back and feel like a slap in your face, a punch in your gut, or like you’ve been knocked down at your knees.

You know that feeling, when you’ve put your heart and soul into something or someone… The hard work, the trust, the opportunity, the patience, the time, the energy, the support you’ve given and it feels like it all got turned-around, upside down, sideways, twisted, corrupted, de-valued and came careening back to you at warp speed without warning… Yeah, that feeling!  It hurts deeply, doesn’t it?

Then, you find yourself questioning what you’re doing, why you’re doing it, how you’re doing it.  Your Mission/Purpose suddenly comes into question, you question your very own value or existence, your impact on the world, and your ability to make a difference.

It’s an emotional roller coaster… And every turn, loop, hill, and drop triggers a different emotion.

While it’s so important to honor your feelings and your emotions… You can’t allow yourself to get caught-up in them, paralyzed by the fears they trigger, lose sight of your goals, or fall off your path of purpose and mission.

I so badly desire for you to know this… 

What happens to YOU, has no impact on your Personal VALUE.

  • Your VALUE isn’t based on someone’s bad day, someone’s opinion of you, or someone’s perception of you.
  • Your VALUE isn’t determined by outcomes, set-backs, mistakes, or perceived failures.
  • Your VALUE isn’t defined by what other’s project towards you.
  • Your VALUE isn’t a day-to-day rate change in the marketplace.
  • Your VALUE isn’t a compilation of the past.
  • Your VALUE isn’t a mirror of your bank account.
  • Your VALUE isn’t open for debate.


Your VALUE is YOU. Your beautiful, unique, special, talented, and carefully created YOU.

Your VALUE is precious and priceless.

When you’re feeling like you’ve been cornered, let down, deceived, betrayed, judged, ignored, used, or you’re feeling unworthy, depressed, annihilated, singled-out, or just flat out hurt…

You must go inside of yourself.  You must get quiet.  You must get connected to the greater power within you.  Connect to your SOURCE.

It’s where you find your Authentic Power, your Confidence, your Purpose, Passion, and Mission.

It’s where you find your Light, your higher frequency of vibration, and your energy.  It’s where you’ll re-discover your inner joy, peace, happiness, and unconditional love.

There’s NOTHING EXTERNAL, nothing outside of you that can change your VALUE… It’s ALL Inside of You.  It’s ALREADY Inside of You!

You’re Worthy, You’re Highly Valued, You’re Greatly LOVED!

~Kimberly Rolandson

The Salon and Spa Institute, Inc

http://www.thesalonandspainstitute.com

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Are You Ready To GROW Your Business From Good To GREAT?

There’s Things Inside Of  You That Are Aspiring For Greatness…
And There’s Things On The Outside Of You Getting In Your Way.

 

Think back to when you had the most grandest vision of your life.  You knew exactly what you wanted to do, why you wanted to do it, and you knew in the depths of your soul…YOUR calling in life.

Maybe you went for the career of your dreams or maybe you’ve been turning your back on what you really want to do in fear of causing upset, disappointment, or letting other people down.

Maybe you’ve shifted your standards to accommodate others.  Maybe, you’ve become a spectator in your own life because it’s been easier to watch your life pass you by versus defending your natural brilliance, authenticity, and pure genius.

Life can been difficult no doubt, with unfair circumstances, unfortunate events, unnecessary conflict, unprovoked mishaps, choices we’ve made that throw obstacles our way.  All of it makes life challenging.  But, that doesn’t mean we can quit on ourselves.

Regardless of your past, YOU STILL HAVE A CALLING… YOUR CALLING.

Yes, you’ve made some mistakes, but you’re not a failure.  Yes, you may have been inconsistent, but you have the ability to be consistent. Yes, you may not have met your goals, but that doesn’t mean you can’t.  Yes, you may have been told you’re not good enough, but you are.  Yes, you may have felt you’re not ever going to have what you want, but I am telling you, YOU CAN!

Regardless of your past, YOU STILL HAVE A CALLING… YOUR CALLING.

You Can’t QUIT On Yourself Any Longer! You Can’t Let The World Dictate Your Future.

If you’re a Hairstylist, Esthetician, Make-up Artist, Massage Therapist, Beauty Expert, Wellness Advisor, Salon Owner, Leader, Spa Director, Cosmetology Student, Educator, Product Distributor… You have a calling and you’ve got to start using your limitless potential, amazing talent, and undeniable authentic genius.

One of the main reasons I created our 90-Day Coaching Program is for you to re-discover the real YOU.  The YOU before life’s circumstances stopped you in your path.  The YOU before you were told to be someone else.  The YOU before you were told you weren’t good enough, smart enough, or talented enough.

I am a believer that if you had the grandest vision of your life or have the grandest vision… You’re Meant To Live It!

 

Anything Is Possible

In the 90-Day Coaching Program, we start uncovering the real you, we help you find your true self again, we help you tap into the genius that you already are, we get you living your Authentic Life so you can stop “faking it till you make it”, because that won’t create the abundant life you’re meant to live.

The 90-Day Coaching Program challenges you through the right kind of pressure, gets you operating at higher levels of accountability, and helps you create new standards that you want to be living and attract those in your life with the same clearly defined standards.

The 90-Day Coaching Program will help you dramatically increase your service dollars, retail sales, retention levels, referrals, and so much more!

The 90-Day Coaching Program Is More Than Just Dramatically Increasing Your Income, It’s About Re-Discovering The REAL YOU!

Our next 90-Day Coaching Program starts May 15. But, I want you to start NOW.  If you register today, I will start working with you tomorrow… I will give you an extra month of coaching at no additional charge! 

I want you to start getting to know the Real You again.  The You that is excited about life, your career, your relationships.  The You that has endless energy to create the life you love.  The You that is refusing to quit on yourself. The You that sees all the greatness in and around you.  The You that will never ever ever settle again.

Are You Ready To Let Go Of The Things That Are Stopping You In Your Tracks?

Are You Ready To Take Your Life On Again As A Full Participant?

I am so excited to do this with you!  I know you’re going to have great success!

What  You Can Expect From 90-Day Coaching…

For More Details On 90-Day Coaching Click Here.

My team is standing by, ready to answer your questions, ready to get you started, all you have to do is say YES TO YOU and register online or Call my Team at 1-888-709-9342.  Register Today and Receive An Extra Month Of Coaching For Free!

Register NOW

To Your Future, To Your Calling, To Your Purpose!

~XOXO

**Over 90+% of our 90-Day Coaching Members, make back their entire investment within the first 30 days of the program.**
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PS.  If you’re a 90-Day Coaching Alumni, call our Team Concierges For Graduate Pricing!

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The 3 Biggest Factors To Your Salon & Spa Sales

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How Are Your Service Dollars, Retail Sales, Add-On Services, Pre-Booking %, Client Retention Numbers,  Referrals?

Stagnant, Decreasing, Or Even Non-Existent??

Chances Are One or ALL Of The Following Factors Have Been Compromised:

1.  ENERGY~  Where’s your ENERGY these days?  Up or Down? Your energy will predict your sales…always. Your energy will set the stage for the day.  So, if you walk into your salon or spa with low energy, it will impact your team, your clients, and ultimately your sales.

2.  ATTITUDE~  What’s your ATTITUDE like? If you’re frustrated and finding yourself operating primarily from the negative mindset, your outcomes will be negative as well. You’ve got to intentionally look for the positives in every situation in order to progress forward.

3.  ENGAGEMENT~  What’s your Level Of ENGAGEMENT currently?  In other words, are you engaged in the process?  Are you excited about the mission and vision of your Salon & Spa?  If you’re finding yourself dreading going into the salon or feeling defeated, you’ve got to call a time-out so you can gain clarity around why you’ve dis-engaged from the process.

These factors have more impact on your numbers than any business strategy or sales formula ever will.  Because when you’re not enthused, excited, energized, or engaged in the process of serving your clients… There’s simply not any business strategy around that will shift your numbers the way YOUR BEING-NESS will shift your numbers.

Reach Out To Your Clients, Serve Humbly, Live Your Purpose!

Yours In Success!


PS.  When you’re more energetic, operating primarily from positive a mindset, and you’re more engaged in the process of serving your clientele at great capacity… The more your clientele will remain loyal, spend more money with you, and send you a steady stream of referrals.
Your Vibe Attracts Your Tribe!!

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Anything Is Possible

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There’s Things Inside Of You That Are Aspiring For Greatness…
And There’s Things On The Outside Of You Getting In Your Way.

 

Think back to when you had the most grandest vision of your life.  You knew exactly what you wanted to do, why you wanted to do it, you knew in the depth of your soul your calling in life.

Maybe you went for the career of your dreams or maybe you’ve been turning your back on what you really want to do in fear of causing upset, disappointment, or letting down.

Maybe, you’ve lowered your standards to accommodate others.  Maybe, you’ve become a spectator in your own life because it’s been easier to watch your life pass you by versus defending your natural brilliance, authenticity, and pure genius.

Life can been difficult no doubt, with unfair circumstances, unfortunate events, unnecessary conflict, unprovoked mishaps, choices we’ve made that throw obstacles our way.  All of it makes life challenging.  But, that doesn’t mean we can quit on ourselves.

Regardless of your past, YOU STILL HAVE A CALLING… YOUR CALLING.

Yes, you’ve made some mistakes, but your not a failure.  Yes, you’ve been inconsistent, but you have the ability to be consistent. Yes, you’ve may had not met your goals, but that doesn’t mean you can’t.  Yes, you’ve been told you’re not good enough, but you are.  Yes, you’ve felt you’re not ever going to have what you want, but I am telling you, YOU CAN!

Regardless of your past, YOU STILL HAVE A CALLING… YOUR CALLING.

You Can’t QUIT On Yourself Any Longer! You Can’t Let The World Dictate Your Future.  You have a calling, you have something right now in front of you that you’re supposed to be doing.

If you’re a Hairstylist, Esthetician, Make-up Artist, Massage Therapist, Beauty Expert, Wellness Advisor, Salon Owner, Leader, Spa Director, Cosmetology Student, Educator, Product Distributor… You have a calling and you’ve got to start using your full potential, amazing talent, and undeniable authentic genius.

One of the main reasons I created our 90-Day Coaching program is for you to re-discover the real YOU.  The YOU before life’s circumstances stopped you in your path.  The YOU before you were told to be someone else.  The YOU before you were told you weren’t good enough, smart enough, talented enough.

I am a believer that if you had the grandest vision of your life or have the grandest vision… You’re Meant To Live It!

In the 90-Day Coaching program, we start uncovering the real you, we help you find your true self again, we help you tap into the genius that you already are, we get you living your Authentic Life so you can stop “faking it till you make it”, because that won’t create the abundant life you’re meant to live. Your Past Doesn’t Matter… It’s The NOW That Counts.

The 90-Day Coaching Program challenges you through the right kind of pressure, gets you operating in higher levels of accountability, and helps you create the high standards you want to be living and attract those in your life with the same standards.

The 90-Day Coaching Program Is So Much More Than Just Dramatically Increasing Your Income, It’s About Re-Discovering The REAL YOU!

 
Our next 90-Day Coaching Program starts October 24th. But, I want you to start NOW.

I want you to start getting to know the Real You again.  The You that is excited about life, your career, your relationships.  The You that has endless energy to create the life you love.  The You that is refusing to quit on yourself. The You that sees all the greatness in and around you.  The You that will never ever ever settle again.

Are You Ready To Let Go Of The Things Outside Of You That Are Stopping You In Your Tracks?

Are You Ready To Take Your Life On Again As A Full Participant?

I am so excited to do this with you!

What  You Can Expect From 90-Day Coaching…

For More Details On 90-Day Coaching Click Here.

My team is standing by, ready to answer your questions, ready to get you started, all you have to do is say YES TO YOU and register online or Call my Team at 1-888-709-9342.

REGISTER NOW

To Your Future, To Your Calling, To Your Purpose!

~XOXO

**Over 90+% of our 90-Day Coaching Members, make back their entire investment within the first 30 days of the program.**

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Mission & Purpose

My Mission Expanded &

My Purpose Amplified

I hear you GOD, I get it! The taps I get on my shoulders are more and more frequent, the signs are all around me, the people who I attract into my life, the clarity of purpose defined, redefined, and the message louder, stronger. I get it! I’ve GOT TO STAY ON PURPOSE TO LIVE OUT MY MISSION!

Mission, Purpose… Mission, Purpose… Mission, Purpose… 

 

As a survivor of sexual harassment and power struggle in a male-dominated corporate arena that I worked in, as a survivor of an eating disorder that kept me trapped inside confusion, as a survivor of a rape that stole my innocence my freshman year of college, as a survivor of perfectionism, as a survivor of caring too much of what others thought of me, as a survivor of a failed first marriage… I AM MORE THAN ENOUGH.

I AM GRATEFUL, I AM BLESSED, I AM A WOMAN WHO’S BEEN ON MISSION FOR 16 YEARS!!

I’m in deep gratitude for my amazing husband, three beautiful children, a professional life I love, an incredible support team, and a never-ending hunger to be a Servant-Leader in every single area of my life.

I’ve had and continue to have the greatest honor and privilege of working with the most amazing, beautiful, courageous, vulnerable, fun, loving, compassionate souls.

Over the last 16 years of mentoring/coaching/leading thousands of brilliant souls… It’s so painful to see how many have quit writing their story.  They’ve got lost or stuck in their past experiences. Their purpose has become fuzzy and unclear.  Their hopes have become a memory.  Their dreams have paused. Their goals have yet to be created because they feel they aren’t deserving. As a result, the words MISSION and Purpose have merely become buzz words.

My mission and purpose has been to spread the message of:  YOU ARE MORE THAN ENOUGH, YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL, YOU ARE BLESSED BEYOND MEASURE, YOUR STORY IS IMPORTANT,  YOUR TALENTS ARE EXCEPTIONAL, and YOU ARE SO SO SO VERY LOVED.

I believe my ability to SURVIVE and THRIVE from my experiences, have continued to expand my Mission and amplify my Purpose.  Every tear shed, every moment of anger, confusion, sadness, shame, bitterness… Allowed for me to experience and share my story with you.  Maybe it’s some hope, maybe some encouragement, maybe some relief to know you’re not alone, or maybe just a little nudge to knock you back on course of your Mission and Purpose.

And trust me, when I start skimping on my purpose or getting off track from mission, I am sure reminded QUICKLY by the “tests” or taps on my shoulder, reminders I am not serving to my abilities… I am also way more irritable, tired, blah, frustrated.  Believe me, your Physical, Emotional, Mental, Spiritual, and Financial states are good indicators if you’re congruently operating with Purpose through Mission or not.

It’s Imperative To Life Our Life Through Mission and Purpose…
Don’t let the past define you or determine your destiny!!!
From the depths of my heart, from spark in my spirit, from the power of my source, I CAN SO CONFIDENTLY SAY THIS TO YOU:

Whatever has happened to you:  That’s NOT YOU!
Whatever hasn’t happened to you:  That’s NOT YOU!
Other people’s opinions of you:   That’s NOT YOU!
Other people’s actions towards you:  That’s NOT YOU!

I WILL ALSO SAY THIS TO YOU:

Right Now, In This Very Moment, As You Are Reading This Love Note From My Heart To Your Heart, I Pray This Sticks With You, I Pray You Believe All Of What I Am About To Say To You….

You ARE Beautifully Created and Perfectly YOU.

You ARE Uniquely Talented & Possess A Combination Of Strengths Like No One Else.

You ARE Exactly Who You Are Created To Be.

You ARE Kind, Compassionate, and Loving.

You ARE Loved By So So Many People.

You ARE Strong.

You ARE Blessed.

You ARE A Leader.

You ARE A Powerful Authentic Being.

You ARE A Light In The Darkness.

You ARE MORE THAN ENOUGH!!!!

It’s time to start digging through some of the “stuff” that may have stopped you in your tracks, it’s time to move forward in the victory of your overcoming, it’s time to take your story, and inspire those around you.

You have a PURPOSE. You’ve got to re-discover it, or maybe expand it, or perhaps shout it from the mountain tops!!! You’ve been created with your Purpose; it’s time to live out your MISSION.

I Promise This To YOU…  Life Is SO MUCH SWEETER WHEN LIVING ON PURPOSE THROUGH MISSION!!!

You Are More Than Enough!
~XOXO

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Is This You, Can You Relate?

Earlier today, I had a call with a coaching client of mine.  A beautifully-spirited, talented, intelligent, compassionate, business owner who has great things going for her.

She sounds amazing, right? A Total Success? Can YOU Relate?

Here’s the tragic thing though…
Her SELF-VALUE is LOW. Incredibly incredibly LOW. 

Her perception of her own value is based on the combination of other people’s opinions, thoughts, comments…then you add in her experiences and her past conditioning.  She’s allowed others to define her value and she’s busy apologizing for who she is, what she stands for, and what she believes in.

Matter of fact, she’s spent the better part of her life trying to fit into the molds that others have built for her.  The molds that have created a quieter, less outspoken, be accepting of lower standards, don’t try so hard, be less goal oriented, sit in the back corner, and don’t create any upset kind-of-person.

So, in turn, her outcomes have been far less than they should be. Why? Because of her INCONGRUENCY.  In other words, she stopped showing up as her natural authentic being; therefore her outcomes are low and her struggles are high.

She struggles for energy and when she musters up enough, it doesn’t last.  She rarely commits to goals anymore because she doesn’t believe she’s worth reaching them.  She doesn’t speak up.  She doesn’t ask for what she needs. She holds back her deepest desires.  She cuts her dreams in half.  She doesn’t see past her mistakes. She quits before finishing.  She doesn’t start many new things because she fears she won’t finish.  And so on.

She’s HOLDING Her NATURAL GENIUS HOSTAGE!

So today, we worked on PERMISSION

We started the process of giving herself permission to experience her uniqueness, her talents, her voice, her opinions, her thoughts, her values, her dreams, her goals, her vision, her feelings, her spirit, and her desires.

One of her discoveries today was that she gave up her permission to be herself when she was told she was too successful.

WHAT? Yes!!!  Her past relationship said she was too successful for him, she had too many goals, she wanted too much, she was always trying to achieve more.  And he couldn’t keep up with it.  So, he talked her into accepting less of herself, her dreams, her goals, her desires… To go against her natural being.

Her Authentic Genius was Compromised.

She had subconsciously sabotaged herself over a period of time and eventually her outcomes matched her compromised behaviors/actions and her conditioned beliefs about herself. She went from exceeding goals to not setting goals, to questioning her talents, to losing her excitement in life, to losing her identity.

She stopped showing-up to WIN. She stopped living her life. She gave-up.

 She was making decisions for her life
based on the Opinion of Another.  

As our coaching session was coming to a close this morning, I gave her some homework, and told her I couldn’t wait to pick back up next week during our next session.

But then…

Two hours after our coaching session, she phoned me back!!!

She said, “I had to call you… I know we have a long ways to go and I have a lot of work to do. But, the clarity I gained on when I started to sabotage myself in a BIG BAD WAY is blowing me away.  So, I am starting with this one piece of PERMISSION. I have given myself permission today to BELIEVE in myself again.”  She could barely get through her words, she was crying, laughing, yelling, and then all of a sudden… Her voice stabilized and was of PEACE.

She then, very clearly, said, “Today, I give myself Permission To BELIEVE in myself again.”  After repeating it a dozen times, she started to Believe!!! How did I know? Because something shifted in her at the core, then her voice changed, and matched her words.  It was heard, it was felt. She was CONGRUENT on this.  She BELIEVED!

She’s in the process of discovering who she is again.
I can’t wait for her next coaching call, her next a-ha, her next decision, her next piece of clarity, her next level of awareness. I can’t wait to see where she’ll be and what her outcomes will be when we complete our coaching.  My guess… She’ll be well on her way to creating the life again that SHE loves!!!

Can you relate?  Can you identify with what happened to her?  I believe at some level we all have had an experience or two in our lives where we lost sight of who we are, what we want, where we want to be, what we want to achieve in order to please others.  Honor Yourself!!!

Don’t allow other people’s thoughts, opinions, comments, or actions keep you from being the natural brilliant, authentic genius that you already are.

Remember, The More You’re Authentically You… 

The More ABUNDANCE YOU ATTRACT
Physically, Emotionally, Mentally, Spiritually, Financially.

Keep BELIEVING In You, Your Core Values, Your Core Passions, And The Very Essence Of Who You Already Are.

Believe 2016 Is Your Year To Shine Brightly!!

Always Believe,

Kimberly

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It’s A Brand New Day…. GOOD MORNING!

It’s A Brand New Day… GOOD MORNING!

Are you going to take today on like a CHAMPION?  What are you going to do today that your future self will thank you for?

What are you willing to do today?  What bad habit are you willing to break today?  What are you willing to commit to today?

Make it a day you choose to shift things for yourself.

What will you declare this day to be for you?

About YOU, YOUR FUTURE, YOUR DREAMS, YOUR DESIRES, YOUR IMPACT ON OTHERS, YOUR LEGACY YOU’RE BUILDING…

It’s time to stop quitting on yourself and your future.  It’s time to stop ripping yourself off.  It’s time to stop standing in your own way.  It’s time to stop giving your dreams away to others.

It’s time TO BE YOU!  The REAL YOU! 

Let go of the worry, the doubt, the fear, the unknown… HAVE FAITH IN YOUR BEAUTIFUL BEING.

You already have everything inside of you that you need in order to achieve your goals and your dreams.

It’s just that life has gotten in the way, you’ve gone through some experiences, some situations, some bad decisions, some bad relationships that have thrown a layer of dust on your AUTHENTIC GENIUS!!

It’s time to DUST YOURSELF OFF and BE

THE BRILLIANT DIAMOND

THAT YOU ARE AND ALWAYS HAVE BEEN!!!

 

You came into this world with special gifts and talents that only you’ve been blessed with, for a reason, and it’s time to start using them.  I believe that if we don’t use our gifts and talents; we’ll lose them overtime.  That’s when our dreams begin to die, our hopes start to fade, and self-imposed limitations start creeping in.

That’s why it’s time you make a decision to declare today as a NEW DAY…

A BEAUTIFUL DAY FOR A DECLARATION TO TAKE BACK YOUR LIFE!!!

Be in daily gratitude, acknowledge all the beauty surrounding you, be willing to experience life in a new way… Be willing to focus on the positives, the blessings, the opportunities, and all that you have right now in this very moment.

Here’s To Your New Day!

 

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